Humanistic studies 1

Identity among Others

Everybody has their own identity. They really admit that they are in a part of their identity. It is very important for them. However, people live in the world by having differences. Sometimes the differences make the beautiful life, but in other side it makes a complicated problem. If each people with the different thought of something do not understand each other, it will make a serious problem in that case. It also happens in different identity. They can not live together if they do not respect one another.

The statement above is just a part of some theories which the people always use. We can reflect in our daily life about the difference of identity. The example could come from all the status and sides. The students of the university usually find and feel it when they were in the first meeting and face other kinds of people characteristics. Moreover they are still a young people so it is possible if the simple problem can create a big problem because of identity. In the age around teenager, some people like to be admitted their selves or their identity. So that’s why the students of the university have problem in admitting their selves and difference identity among others.

As mentioned in the first sentence in paragraph one, all of people have their own identity and they like to be admitted based on their identity.  For example the students of the university said that they are Javanese. It can take a meaning that they want to be admitted as calm people because the stereotype of Javanese people are calm, or it can also mean that they proud of to be Javanese people.

That is an example of identity in the university students. We can take the example from a couple of husband and wife who come from different city and have many neighbors come from all the different towns. All of them have to respect one another. The couple itself has their own identity; they should respect each other. They live together all the time; it means that it is not easy to understand each other that come from different background. They also live in the society who has different identity. It is difficult enough problem if the husband or wife doesn’t really pay attention on it. Let say the wife comes from Javanese who has the high quality of feeling something and the husband comes from Bataknese who has different character with the husband. Both of them like admit their own identities. Only understanding and respecting each other all of problems will not be a serious problem in this life.